Adding a spark to your marriage with romance rekindles
the sweet times you had when you were dating and can go a long way in your
marriage life. If you have a disconnect with your husband or wife, its time you
took a keen consideration to bring change if at all you want your relationship
to survive for a lifetime. There are quite a number of things that married
partners can do for each other to bring unending love in their marriage bond. Romance
does not necessarily have to be expensive. It can be based on a variety of
factors like simple love gestures and talk.
Creating romance is one way of improving your marriage
relationship. Don’t expect to receive this gift if you can’t give it out. You
can start by being romantic in a variety of ways from appreciating yourself,
dressing up, cooking nice meals, playing music and anything fancy you like.
These are some simple activities that will make your partner interested and
want to do participate more with you.
Consider pleasant sharing of the day’s events or past memories when you go
to bed before you fall asleep. Hugging and keeping close body contact will
bring a peaceful sensation which is good for a healthy relationship.
Play is one thing that many couples lack. If you find
your relationship quite boring, you can bring up some form of play just like
you used to do when you were dating. You can run after each other around the house
or even watch cartoons or comedies together. Play connects you to your partner
as it relives the tension by bringing laughter and happiness in the relationship.
Playing games sets an opportunity to talk and get away from the norm which might
quite be boring. Playing brings about a new dimension in your relationship which
will always be remembered for a long time.
Assuming that your partner knows what you want doesn’t
work right. Complaining, nagging and demanding won’t work either. You should
take a step and ask your partner what you want in your romantic life. Do this
with sweet romantic words to capture your partners’ attention. Verbalizing your
feelings rather than being defensive and hostile when problems arise makes communication
smooth. Avoid interrupting or making conclusions when your partner is voicing
his or her fears. Instead, listen with an open mind without talking until your
turn to talk comes.
Appreciating your partner after doing little things
such as cleaning dishes is great. Showing your likeness for tasks or favors
done to you will increase more acts of love vital in a romantic relationship.
You can send a text message to your partner at work and thank him for something
he did like preparing and bringing you breakfast in bed. Inviting your wife for
lunch or dinner in a nice setting away from where you frequent is special and
will save her the effort of cooking which she will appreciate you for. Leaving
small gifts for your husband in a place he will see is also romantic and he
will want to do the same in future.
Talking and listening are very important aspects in a romantic
relationship. Sit facing each other and maintain good eye contact when talking.
Holding hands will show that you care even when dealing with very difficult
matters. A time out is good when the situation seems to get out of hand. You
can develop a signal system like a hand squeeze when such cases arise. Try your
best to reach a point of agreement as opposed to winning. Remember to speak the
truth when talking to your partner. Keeping secrets will create disconnect in
your relationship and your partner will feel unsecure if you conceal ideas and
views.
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